Not to many people really ask me what I want in a guy. And recently I've been thinking about it more often.
I need to start with the history I have with guys. I usually have dated skinny guys, all different type of "stereotypes." My last boyfriend, was someone I thought I wanted in a guy. I was completely wrong.
I'm the type of person who is weird with her relationships. I don't like to be too attached, attachment to me is a way to dump your problems on someone else, I'm very independent and I usually keep to myself. So guys who depend on me for everything, who always want to be around, or constantly ask me where I am...are not going to work.
So really this is what I'm looking for:
Have a place, a job, and goals. Have gone to school, or is going to school. Be independent, and don't depend on me to do everything for you. I want a guy who will stick up for me, and bring me around his friends. I love guys who like to travel, and explore! The beach is a biggie too. If you can lay on the beach with me...perfect.
Treat me like a lady, use manners. I don't like anyone rude or mean.
I really prefer someone who likes the military or who will be in the military. Ive grown up with military, its everything I know and love it.
But...
Whats my chances of meeting someone like this?
